You guys know I teach and preach to STAY IN THE CRIB until 3 years old! But what about potty training? Since that is sometimes done prior to turning 3, how do you potty train AND keep a child in the crib? Allison Jandu, to the rescue! Allison is a Potty Training Consultant who we’ve previously had on the podcast and is an amazing wealth of knowledge! I love everything she shares, and when this FAQ starting coming in- I knew we needed to get her in on this topic! Allison shares her insight today on how to Nighttime Potty Train from the Crib!
As a professional potty training consultant, I often recommend to my clients to do both daytime and nighttime potty training at the same time for the best, most efficient results possible. By removing all diapers from the get-go, it helps send a very clear message that all pee and poop belongs in the potty now. It leaves no room for interpretation or confusion. But all too often, I’m met with the argument, “But we can’t nighttime train yet because she stills sleeps in a crib.”
I completely understand that nighttime potty training is a scary enough undertaking without worrying about your little one having an accident because they can’t get out of their crib and to the potty in time! The truth is, there is really no difference between nighttime training in the crib versus a bed. Your child’s desire for you to be active and involved in this process doesn’t change! Even if your child were already sleeping in a bed, chances are they are going to need you there to help them, at least in the beginning.
If your child is still sleeping in a crib, here are some tips on how to set them up for success:
When you make the leap and remove diapers for naps and overnight, make sure your child knows to alert you if they feel the urge to go potty while they’re sleeping. Any time you hear stirring or fussing in the night could also be an indicator that they need to go, so when you first get started, try to be ready to spring into action quickly.
Since your child will need to wait for you to go in and get them before they can go, take advantage of every second by having the potty right next to the crib for quick and easy access.
Having to use the potty during the night if they need to go is a new and mysterious frontier for your little one! Children thrive on routine and predictability, so take some time to do a few practice runs so they can know what to expect if they need to go potty while they’re asleep.
Your child is most likely to need to go potty first thing in the morning – it’s human nature! So instead of giving them some playtime in their crib in the mornings as you normally might, go in and get them either just before they would normally wake up, or right as they are waking up to start the day off right with a potty success!
All of this being said, if you had planned on transitioning your kiddo to a big kid bed any time in the near future anyway, then definitely do that and let them adjust to the new sleeping arrangements before tackling potty training. Throwing too many changes at a toddler at one time greatly increases the chances of regressing in one or more of those new skills.
But the moral of the story is – don’t feel like you need to rush into transitioning to a big kid bed just for the sake of improving nighttime potty training! There is no reason why you can’t go diaper-free for naps and nighttime while your child stays comfortable and happy in their crib. Our kids are capable of so much!
Allison Jandu is a professional consultant who assists families with one of childhood’s most important, yet daunting, milestones – potty training.
Allison has helped hundreds of children of all ages and abilities. Her custom potty training plans are based on building independence and empowerment and she thrives on seeing children succeed. She has made it her personal mission to revolutionize the way we think about potty training as a society.
Allison is also a mother herself, and holds a Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Baltimore. She has written and instructed internationally accredited continued education training for childcare professionals and has written three highly-praised potty training guides: The Poop Puzzle, The Wee Hours, and Potty Training for Busy Parents.
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